Dec 24, 2014

A Christmas Story--well, kind of......

Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. James 1:26

This time of year holds many special traditions for our family.

One of them being Santa Claus pictures. Since my children were birthed, we have taken them to see Santa Claus at a local mall. I have 13 pictures proudly displayed on my kitchen counter representing each year the kids saw Santa. Until this year.

Let me explain...

Monday of this week rolled around and I gasped. Literally, out loud, I gasped.

"We haven't had our annual Santa pictures taken! We must get to the mall now!"

The kids and I jumped into the car and drove the 45 minute drive to the mall.

My thirteen year old son was less than thrilled. I can't imagine why.

We walked right up to the picture line for Santa. I squealed because there was NO one in line. NO one. God had shone His favor all over us!! I just knew it!!

I proudly stood there with my children in tow ready for our annual Santa picture.

The [not so kind] elf man said, "I am sorry, ma'am, but Santa is going on an hour break."

In the sweetest voice I could find I replied, "Oh, sir, but this will only take a second. My kids are big, they smile easily, and they will be done in just a few minutes. Simple!"

The elf man replied, "Umm, no, I am sorry. You will have to come back, Ma'am."

My face started to get flushed. The back of my neck was starting to feel prickly. I could feel my emotions rising a little too quickly.

"Sir, I will buy the biggest package you offer if you will just let us get one quick picture!"

The elf man looked at me like I had totally insulted him. Well, I suppose I did.

"Ma'am, we only have one size package. That's the only package you will be able to get. Now, I am sorry. Come back later."

I felt like I was in a bad Christmas movie. You know, the ones where the Mother goes nuts over the smallest thing going awry? Well, yeah, that was me. The nutty, Christmas sweater wearing, Mother.

My thirteen year old son took my arm and said, "Mom, let's go. Please."

I lingered for a moment, hoping to catch Santa's eye. Surely if he saw how distraught I was he would offer to stay another minute and have one last picture with my oh-so-darling-children.

For a moment, I wished that I had re-applied my lip gloss and combed through my wind-blown hair. Maybe then I could have caught Santa's eye. [terrible, I know]

Santa wasn't budging. Neither was his elf man.

Off we walked into the bleak blur of hustle and bustle. Tears stung my tired eyes. I couldn't keep them from running down my face.

I failed. No Santa picture. No nothing.

I wasn't sure if I was more upset about not having the picture with Santa, or embarrassing myself trying to bribe the elf man. Ugh.

Eventually, I succumbed to the fact that this year we would have no Santa picture. Oh well. The world would not end.

Until the next day...

I had a revelation! There was another mall! I could take the kids to see Santa there! This time, I called the mall. They assured me that Santa would be there ALL day.

He was. Until it was time for his break. The minute we walked up to see him. I am NOT kidding. The little elf girl told me to come back in an hour and a half.


I prayed for Jesus to take the wheel of my tongue. I had to bite my tongue down hard, and I mean hard.

I walked off with the kids with my head bowed down in despair. With each step, praying fervently that I could make it to the car before having my melt down.

We got half way to the car and I had an idea. A smile crossed my praying lips.

We went right back to the Santa picture line where everyone had left for their hour and a half break. [good grief]  I told my kids to sit right down in Santa's chair and I would take their picture. [I thought this was a brilliant idea!]

However, my kids were too scared to sit in Santa's chair without him there. [ohhh, so NOW you become rule followers!!]

Biting my tongue, yet rolling my eyes,  I replied, "Fine. Just stand there and I will take your picture."

"But Mom, what if they see us and we get in trouble?"

I responded in a [scary] calm voice, "I DARE them to say something."

The kids smiled. The crazy momma [me] took the picture. And off we went.

We got our picture. Just without Santa. [picture at bottom of post]

I was happy. They were happy. It was a wrap.

So, I learned a few things these last couple of days.

One...take the kids to see Santa earlier!

Two...I have issues.

Three...I really should have better control over my flesh in times like these.

Four....Praying saved me from making front page of the local newspaper for not controlling my tongue.

Five.... the world will not end if things don't go exactly like I plan. In fact, it just makes for a better story to talk about next year.

We will laugh about this, life will go on, and I will have a picture to frame for my kitchen counter. It will just be Santa-less.

That's okay. Christmas is about Jesus. The Joy He brings. The Peace He brings. Especially to a distraught Christmas-sweater wearing momma.

Merry Christmas, friends!

 May His Love surround you and may His Peace cover you.

But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid; for behold, I bring you good news of great joy which will be for all the people; for today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. Luke 2:10-11

Santa-less 2014

Dec 18, 2014

Help me....

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28

I have to be honest about something. In the last post I wrote to you, I encouraged you to rest. To soak up the quiet of Christmas. To surrender to the Peace that the season offers.

Well, I have not been doing that. It's just so hard. So many parties, so many gifts to buy, so many cards to send, so many....everything.

It makes me tired just to write all of that. Goodness gracious.

However, yesterday, God made sure I that I would partake in His Peace. In His Quiet. In His Rest.

I woke up just as I have been, with my head spinning of things that need to be done. This particular day was going to be a doozie. So many things to check off the list. A meeting at school smack dab in the middle of my afternoon. An after school activity, and many errands to run. Ugh.

As I sat in the quiet of the morning, guzzling my liquid consciousness [coffee], I stared at my Christmas tree and took a deep breath in.

Lord, I need you today, I need you right now. Please talk to me. Speak to me. I miss you. I feel so disconnected from You lately. The irony is that this season is all about You, yet, I feel so far from You. Please help me. I need to re-focus. Talk to me, Lord. Please. 

Reading my devotional, I felt a little peace. I felt a little more connected. However, that quickly ended. The clock struck 6:30 am and it was GO-time. Y'all know what I mean. Kids up! Kids eat! Kids dressed! Kids in car!

The morning routine was a blur. Moving at break-neck speed, we got in the car to head to school. I was DETERMINED to get my middle schooler to school on time. I was late one day this week already, and I was not about to have to get out of my car, sans make-up, and sign him in....again. 

We are half-way into our 17 mile drive to school, when we realize that my daughter has left her project at home.

Okay, here's where Momma's head spins and her eyes pop out of her ever-lovin' head.

My poor kids. They were at the mercy of a rushed, hurried, stressed-out, left-project-at-home, mother. They had no chance.

By the time we got to my son's school, my daughter was crying her eyes out. I had pretty much yelled at her the entire way to school. NOT proud.

[on the positive side, my son was on time! barely.]

As we turned the corner to head to her school, I felt a nudge to just drive back home. With my daughter with me.

I said a quick, "I need to know what to do, Lord" prayer

It was like the car just started driving itself home. Not kidding.

Before I knew it, my daughter and I were home. I had decided on that 17 mile drive home,  that she needed to stay home with me today. Our morning had been beyond rough, and I needed to ease my guilty conscious and love on her today.

Well, as soon as we arrived home, she plopped on the couch. She then told me that she didn't feel good. Uh-oh.

This never happens. This little girl has the energy of a bunny rabbit. Never sitting. Ever.

I knew she must be sick.

I took her temperature, and it showed what I already knew.

Plopping down next to her, I exhaled.

Okay, Lord, this is why we came back home. My baby girl is sick. She needs to rest. I need to rest. We need to rest. 

I sent a couple of emails to people I was supposed to meet up with that day, and felt the hugest rush of peace and relief.

My baby girl and I were having a home day, and I could not be happier.

Of course, I was not glad she was sick. However, I was glad to have the time with her. To snuggle with her. To watch a Christmas movie with her. To love on her.

In between snuggles, I got caught up on the laundry.  Y'all would have fainted at the laundry baskets that were overflowing. Even my son said this week, "Mom, please wash my clothes." Oops. That's embarrassing.

God was Present in the sweetest ways yesterday. As I was folding laundry in the laundry room, a big beautiful red bird caught my eye through the window. It landed on a tree right outside of the window. If you know me, you know that red birds are a reminder from Jesus that He is with me.

I thanked Him over and over for reminding me of this.

At the end of that day, I was full. Full of peace. Full of refreshment. Full of Him.

He had answered my prayer so sweetly, and in such unexpected ways. Tears are rolling down my cheeks as I ponder His tenderness and faithfulness.

Once again, I am in complete and utter awe of Him.

He never ceases to go over and beyond showing His love. He meets every need, even the ones we are unaware that we need met.

Do you need a breather? Do you need a little peace today?

Oh, sweet friend, go to Him. Talk to Him. Pour your little heart out to Him. He will answer. He is faithful in every detail of your precious life.

"May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.  The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it." 1 Thessalonians 5:23-24



Dec 9, 2014

Surrender to Silence....

"Give us today our daily bread." Matthew 6:11

Last week was a roller coaster. To say the least.

On Sunday, I could feel my body coming down with something. Something yucky.

My throat hurt, my muscles ached, and I was just dog-tired.

By the next day, I was full-blown sick. Sigh.

I rested, because, honestly, I didn't feel like doing anything else. It was a chore just to take my kids to school.

By Wednesday, I was still in the same condition, yet now, I had completely lost my voice.

My throat felt like glass shards were burrowing deep into my tonsils each time I swallowed. Nice.

I was so frustrated. Of all the weeks this whole year, why did THIS have to be the week I was sick?

My daughter's birthday was this week. I had a to-do list a mile and a half long. And, to top it off, I was scheduled to speak at a women's Christmas dinner that Friday night.

I had stuff to do!

Getting sick was not in my schedule.

My speech was already prepared, thank goodness, but I had planned on going over it each day just to make sure I had it nailed.

Well, that surely didn't happen. I had no voice. No energy, and no motivation.

On Thursday, I was still not getting much better.

Okay, God...what in the world is happening? You know that I have to speak tomorrow night. You know that I need to be well. You know that I have not had any time to go over my speech this week because of my physical condition....

What's going on??

I remember specifically asking Him if I had done something wrong? Do you not want me to speak on Friday, Lord? I need to know what's happening here. I trust You to make me better, but will you make me better? Or do you want me to not speak? I need an answer, and quickly.

All day long on Thursday I prayed.

I felt the Lord telling me to rest. Rest. Rest.

But, I don't want to rest, Lord, I have things to do!

I heard Him speak to my heart, "Trust me, Jill. Rest. I have a plan in this." 

I finally surrendered and told Him I trusted Him completely. There was nothing I could do to make myself better, my health was completely in His Big, Capable Hands.

Friday morning, I woke up and felt like a new person. Not a hint of tiredness, in fact, I had a spring in my step.

I couldn't believe it. Suddenly, I was absolutely healed.

Not even an ounce of a sore throat. Or achy muscles.

I was able to walk on that stage Friday night and talk to those women completely well.

Here is what God taught me last week...

He is in control. 

When He says "rest",  He means it. 

He knows what He is doing. 

When I surrender to Him, His plan begins to unfold. 

He had already planned what would happen that Friday night, and He needed my spirit and body to be refreshed. 

God reminded me of something He taught me two years ago.

A couple of weeks before Christmas, I came down with the flu.

I was so mad, because I still had so much to do. However, after a week and a half of being down and out, and I mean down and out, I saw what was happening.

My body was resting. Although my immune system was fighting this nasty flu, my spirit was getting some much needed rest and refreshment.

That Christmas, the  Lord showed me what Christmas was really about. Being home. Being surrounded by my precious family, watching corny Christmas movies (which I LOVE!), and being completely surrendered to His Mercy.

Since that Christmas two years ago, I have a new perspective on Christmas. Instead of rushing here and there, spending too much money, and being in a mad dash, I want to slow down. I want to soak in every Christmas light, reminiscence about every homemade ornament, and focus on Jesus.

When I want to over-do-it, spend more money than I have, stress out about decorating, or just doing too much...

I think about that stable that Jesus was born in . I think about the simplicity of His birth. No big hospital. No red carpet entrance. Just a mom, a dad, and the birth of The Savior.

God wants my heart surrendered to Him, not to being busy. He is found in the quiet moments In the smiles of my children. In the glow of our colored Christmas tree lights. In the sound of hearing my momma's voice on the other end of the phone. In the joy and excitement of my nephew, who is serving in the Navy in Hawaii, coming home for Christmas. In the Christmas eve service at our church.

He is found.

So, as I rest this Christmas season, I pray that you will too. I pray that we won't get caught up with celebrating as the world celebrates, but celebrate as He would have us celebrate. With a surrendered heart, and a spirit at peace.

Each day is a gift. Unwrap it, and see the absolute wonder in what His Hands have provided. He is our daily bread. We don't need to worry about tomorrow, He has that taken care of already.

unwrapping the gift of this day,


Nov 25, 2014

A Little Note for you....

We have a winner from our SHINE Girl Give-away...

It is MeLissa Allen!

My daughter drew the name, and we are so happy that you will receive this wonderful book by Renee Robinson! Yay!!

Please send me your address, and your book will be on the way! What a perfect way to start off this Christmas season! Congratulations!

Dear SHINE girls,

Okay, so let's get down to business about our reading plan.

I am taking the month of December off to rest, renew, restore, and enjoy every second with my family.

Of course, I encourage you to stay in God's Word, especially in the midst of the busyness of the upcoming holidays. Check out the gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. Good, good stuff.

I will be in much prayer over the direction of SHINE girls for the upcoming year. My prayer is that the Lord will guide and lead as the New Year comes upon us. I never want to move an inch without clear direction from the Lord. So, I am excited to see where He leads this ministry. Would you please be praying along with me?

Also, I must take this opportunity to thank you for the constant encouragement, love, support, and prayers for me and this incredible gift of a ministry. My eyes brim over with tears as I reflect upon the last 3 years with all of you. Just when I need it the most, I will hear from one of you. The Lord uses your encouragement and prayers  to spur me on another day. Truly, you are loved and adored beyond words.

So, as I celebrate Thanksgiving this week, I reflect on one of the biggest blessings in my life....all of YOU. You truly bless my heart.  Even though many of you I have never met face to face, I consider you one of my best friends. Trekking through this life, studying God's Word together, hand in hand, rooted in Jesus Christ. What is better than that?

I pray you feel the Father's Grace, Love, Mercy, Peace, Renewal, Joy, and Restoration this week. As you celebrate Thanksgiving, may the Lord Jesus blanket you with His Presence.

"Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! 
Give thanks to him; bless his name!" 
Psalm 100:4

thankful for the gift of you,


Nov 24, 2014

Seeking Christmas SHINE girl give-away......

November Reading Plan: The book of James
November Memory Verse: James 3:10
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Good morning, SHINE girls!

Guess what?! We have ANOTHER SHINE girl give-away! If you are not following us on Instagram, today we gave away a GORGEOUS cross bracelet that my mother-in-love donated! If you are not following us on Instagram, Go! Follow! :)

Here is the AWESOME prize that we have to give away today!

My beautiful and talented friend, Renee Robinson, has published an incredible Christmas book. I read it last year, and plan to read it every Christmas with my family.

Seeking Christmas
by: Renee Robinson 

Here is an excerpt from Amazon of what this wonderful book is about:

Do you wonder if the commercialization or hectic pace of the Christmas season is making it
harder each year to celebrate what really matters? Do you wonder if the real message of Christmas is getting lost in the shuffle between parties, gift exchanges, and pageants? Seeking Christmas is a series of family devotions and guided, hands-on activities that give your family meaningful traditions, rich experiences, and treasured memories.

Renee's writing is inspiring to say the least. Hop on over to her website and browse some of her posts. You will absolutely be hooked on her writing. She's gifted with much wisdom.

**To win Renee's book, please leave us a comment telling us one of your favorite Christmas traditions. Please make sure to leave your name. :) Renee will mail the winner a copy of her 

**If you have trouble posting a comment, you can email me at and leave me your comment. I will post on the blog for you. :)

In the meantime, be blessed by a post she wrote recently about how we can serve others this Christmas. Grab a cup of coffee and enjoy!

18 Ways Your Family Can Serve Others This Christmas
by: Renee Robinson

I want my kids to understand that Christmas is about more than the gifts. At the same time, I want them to see the gift inside of them they can offer to others. We can practice generosity and service all year long, but Christmas provides a unique opportunity to model a giving heart.
The Christmas season seems to blow in like a blizzard and bury us with piles of to-do’s. The key for me is to plan ahead just a little. To determine before life gets too hectic what our family will do.
Serving can be so fun when done together as a family. It’s an easy way to create new traditions that bond your family while giving to those in need. Here is a list of ways your family can serve others at Christmas.
  1. Have a hot chocolate stand and donate the proceeds to your favorite charity. – My kids love having lemonade stands. In the summer, they will host a stand and donate to Blood Water Mission to provide clean water for Africans. I’m amazed at the generosity of the people who stop when they know they are giving to a good cause. People will pay $5 for a cup of lemonade. So how about hot chocolate at Christmas? The kids have fun making signs and setting up the stand. They work hard and keep none of the money but know their efforts have the potential to save lives.
  2. Pack shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child- This is one of our favorite traditions. Each of our boys likes to pack their own shoebox. Many Chick-fil-A locations even have a day to drop off boxes in exchange for a free sandwich coupon.
  3. Purchase a gift for Angel Tree Prison Fellowship -Many children have lost a parent to prison. This is a way to provide a gift to a child whose parent is unable to give them a gift.
  4. Visit a nursing home- One year we visited the nursing home and just walked around visiting the residents while they ate lunch. This was very uncomfortable for me but totally comfortable for my husband. He didn’t hesitate to hug people he didn’t know, and I couldn’t believe how open and receptive the residents were. They loved seeing our boys. Andrew was about 2 at the time, and he easily hugged the necks of strangers and they hugged him right back. Other times we have purchased small gifts such as slipper socks and warm hats to hand out to the residents.
  5. Adopt a family- Many local charities offer ways to adopt a family in poverty that cannot afford to provide gifts at Christmas. This is a wonderful way to lessen what you might spend on your own family and allocate to a family in need. Children can be very involved in this by selecting the gifts, making cards, and wrapping presents.
  6. Host an orphan, or donate to help other families host an orphan2 years ago we hosted an orphan at Christmas and explained to our children that rather than use our money to buy gifts, we were going to bring a child who has no parents into our home, love on him, and model to him what family looks like and show him the love of God. This experience changed our family forever. We have now hosted twice, and God has caused our hearts to desire to care for the fatherless in tangible ways.
  7. Pack military boxes -Brave men and women serve our country so we can enjoy the freedoms and safety we enjoy. They sacrifice their lives for us. For many in the military, they will not be with family like we may be. Sending a little care package is a tiny way to say thank you for all they do for us.
  8. Blankets to homeless – Purchase blankets and visit an area of town where homeless men and women are likely to lay their heads at night in the cold. Pass out blankets. And pray over the blankets you will place in the hands of ones in need.
  9. Ornaments or craft projects to friends and neighbors – This isn’t a project of serving the needy, but is a way to continue to think of others over ourselves. It’s a fun way to love on the ones we love. The craft store has so many inexpensive projects that kids love doing. Pinterest not required! Just grab a few ornaments, paints, and stickers, and let the kids use their own creativity.
  10. Cookies and apple cider to homeless shelters – Take jugs of cider and plates of cookies to a homeless shelter and pass them out. It might be the brightest moment of someone’s week or season when you enter into their world even for just a moment to love on them.
  11. Provide a meal for a hospice patient – This has become a tradition for our family, which we started about 3 years ago. Contact your local hospice and ask if they have a volunteer list for donating a meal. Our hospice offers the option for Thanksgiving or Christmas and the option to provide a cooked or unprepared meal. In the past we have delivered a cooked meal on Christmas Day. Providing a meal is an obvious act of love and one that is so easy to get the kids involved in. It’s a way to remember that while some of us are in seasons of joy, others are in seasons of grief and pain. We can pray over the meal we prepare and pray for the mouths that receive it.
  12. Serve in a soup kitchen (most have age requirements, so this doesn’t work for young children). Our kids have not been old enough to do this yet, but I look forward to the day we can.
  13. Invite someone you don’t know over for dinner and practice hospitality. Is there a neighbor you don’t know very well? A widow nearby that could use the company? Don’t worry about how clean the house is, don’t worry about the decorations. Open the door wide, invite them in, and love on them through kind hospitality.
  14. Deliver treats to community service workers. Drop cookies at the fire stations, police station, teachers lounge, library help desk, garbage men. We are served all day long by many different people. Our kids need to be reminded how hard others work on their behalf. It’s a small thank you.
  15. Choose a gift from the Compassion or Samaritan’s Purse catalogue – The gifts from these catalogues are so inexpensive when you see the life-changing effects they have. Andrew selected a soccer ball as a gift item one year. Our boys take for granted they can go to a store whenever they want and buy a new ball. To realize some children don’t have a simple ball to play with was shocking to them. One of my boys chose the gift item that provides medicine. And one chose clean water.
  16. Random acts of kindness- everyone loves this, especially kids. It’s a fun way to be a secret santa. There are hundreds of random acts of kindness you can find online.
  17. Dedicate a day to the “little” ways that bless big – We often look for the obvious ways to serve, the soup kitchens, the shoebox packing, but we can’t overlook the little ways we can bless big. Make it a game of finding every chance to bless someone by serving them hope, love, peace, or joy. A child that normally fights back when offended by a brother chooses to disengage, he gave the gift of peace to the family. A child that saw an elderly in the produce aisle and offers to push her cart while she picks her produce, offers the gift of love. A child who sees a sad expression and tells a joke, or offers a giant smile, gives the gift of joy. We have the opportunity to serve constantly. While it is important to look for big ways to serve, it’s equally important to practice serving in the less obvious ways.
  18. Day of prayer- choose a day and a charity or need that God places on your heart and spend the day praying. Prayer changes situations more than anything we can ever do. It shouldn’t be overlooked. Prayer is the best act of service we can offer, and this is something we can model no matter the age of our children.
With all of these ideas (and the many I didn’t cover), we can’t forget to discuss with our kids why we are doing what we are doing. We aren’t trying to gain recognition. We aren’t trying to be super christian. We aren’t trying to gain favor. We are giving the gifts of Christmas. We are showing the love of Christ when we allow Him to use us to offer love, hope, peace, and joy to another.
Everything we do is an offering to Him. Every act of service is an act of worship.
One beautiful way to keep this visual in your home is to wrap up these “gifts” as gifts back to the Lord in honor of a season that is a celebration of His birth. This can be done by keeping a stocking for Jesus where you write notes on scraps of paper of all the gifts of Christmas you gave in His honor and fill His stocking. Or you can let the kids wrap up notes or packages addressed to Jesus that tell of the gift given for Him. Christmas morning unwrap these gifts to Jesus in celebration of His birth.
All in remembrance of the gift He gave for us. The gift of a son, born to die for our sins, so that we could have eternal life through Christ. The ultimate Christmas gift.

Nov 21, 2014

It's about Time....

November Reading Plan: The book of James
November Memory Verse: James 3:10
New to SHINE? Go here. 

"Submit yourselves, then, to God" James 4:7

This will be my last post on the book of James. I could write a year's worth of posts on this book, but we will stop here for now. 

The Greek word for the word "submit" is  hupotass√≥. Yeah, try to pronounce that. 

[Side note: The reason many bible studies tell you the Greek word or meaning is because the original New Testament was written in Greek. I did not know this for many years.]

"Submit" or hupotass√≥  means "to place under subject to, to subject, to obey". 

So, James is telling us to place ourselves under God. Not only to be under Him, but to obey Him. 

Sounds like an easy enough thing to do, right?

Well, not exactly. 

The verses preceding this verse tell us this: "Anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God." James 4:4

Wow, that's some pretty straight forward language. It sounds kind of harsh, doesn't it? However, God knows our hearts the best and He knows that friendship with the world will take us slap out of His Gracious Covering Hands. 

Friendship with the world means putting things of this world, above God. 

A big thing that we can put above God is our time. We seem to have time to do lots of things in our day. We work, we eat, we sleep [even if minimal], we check in on social media, we run errands, we cook, we clean......

However, are we submitting ourselves to God with our time? If we were to look back on the sum of this past week, how much time have we alloted in our days to be with God?

This is not to make us feel guilty. This is to wake us up, and make us aware of what may be taking first place over our relationship with the Lord.

Life is busy. Life is chaotic. However, if we do not have time to be with the Lord, we have too much on our plate. We have things on our plate that He never desired to be on our plates. Meanwhile, we are left tired, haggard, spent, irritated, stretched, stressed....need I say more?

Been there? Me too. 

We all have 24 hours in a day. It's what we do with those hours that either draw us close to God or pull us away from Him. 

There is always going to be "something to do". Always. This will not end until we are called Home to Heaven. The world will pull, beckon, and lure us away from our Father's Arms. You can bet your sweet little pink lip gloss on that.  

Listen, we can be busy as beavers and still make time for God in our thoughts, in our minds, and in our hearts. We can be wiping baby bottoms, cleaning toilets, grading papers, and still have Him first place in our hearts and minds. 

Just because we are not physically curled up in a blanket on our couch with our bibles in our hands praying, does not mean we are not "with Him". 

I remember when Lem and I first started dating. Even when we were not together I was thinking about him all day long. I would go over conversations that we had, laughs that we shared, things that he did that made me melt. He was "always on my mind"--just like Elvis' song says. ;)

When we have God first place, when we are under submission to Him, He is always on our mind. No matter what we are doing, we are thinking of His faithfulness, His goodness, His blessings.

This is what God desires of us. Why? Because this is how He feels about us.  We are His beloved children for Heaven's sake. We are always on His mind. 

"How precious are Your thoughts to me, O God! How great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand; When I awake, I am still with You. Psalm 139: 17, 18"

As I go throughout my day I often ask Him to help me make Him my one true desire. I tell Him that He is IT for me, and to please help me to show Him this and honor Him in this way. Several times a day I pray this verse from Isaiah 26:8, Your Name and Renown are the desires of my heart. And if it's not, Lord make it be so!

One of my favorite scriptures is "my times are in Your Hands" Psalm 31:5. I want to not just say this verse, but live it. I want to put my time in His Hands and not steal it back from Him. When I steal time back from Him it leaves me exhausted, frazzled, and worn slap out. 

How about you? Are you struggling with putting your time in His Hands? My prayer today is that we will surrender to Him, submit to Him, and place ourselves under Him. Let's put our time in the safest place it can be, in His Hands. 



Nov 18, 2014

You are Called...

November Reading Plan: The book of James
November Memory VerseJames 3:10
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"Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom." James 3:13

As we read James, we see the call that God is giving us. It's a high calling.

The book of James inspired by God is a call to holiness. A call to excellency. A call to righteousness. A call to faithfulness. A call to a life surrendered to Christ.

Before you shrug and say that it's just too much to expect from a girl living in a fallen world, stay with me for a second.

James lived in the same world we live in. Different time period, but same fallen world none the less. He faced trials just as we do today. Different, but the same.

God would never call us to do something that we were not equipped to do. Because He lives in us, we can do all things through Him. [Philippians 4:13]

God would never call us to a life that would be bad for us or negate His promises to us. Because He lives in us, we know that we have a hope and a future. [Jeremiah 29:11-13]

God's Word unfolds the standards that He has called His people to live. They are not just pretty words, made for "perfect" people. His Words are Truth. His words are Life. His call for us to live a life of excellency, purity, and holiness is attainable by a life surrendered to Him.

His high calling for us is not to chain us up to a bunch of laws, in fact, just the opposite. His high calling for us is to unchain us and set us free. "Then you will know the truth and the truth will set you free." John 8:32 

The world offers us mediocre standards, at best.

The world's standards are not our standards, sweet friends.  We do not belong to this world, we belong to Him. [John 17:16]

Our standard, our calling, is a life abiding in Him, Jesus Christ. Our lives are not merely a window display for others to see. They are for our Father in Heaven to see. A heart deeply marked with devotion and surrender to Him. The knowing that when not one person sees us or notices us, our Father sees us. And, oh sweet friend, does He see us. A heart given wholly to Him. Not out of duty or law, but out of love.

Let us not get wrapped up in law, instead let us get wrapped up in Christ. Religion tells us to do more, be more, show more....

Jesus tells us to humble ourselves, and surrender to the fullness of Him. Not ourselves. [James 4:10]

He must become greater, we must become less. John 3:30

Jesus doesn't put the pressure of perfection on us. Jesus offers a life of excellency from obedience and surrender to Him. This has nothing to do with us, and everything to do with Him. Aren't we so glad?

When we humble ourselves with less of us, He adorns us with more of Him. Oh to be adorned with Him! Gosh, I want that. More than anything on this Earth.

If you are tired of feeling like you are not doing enough...good. That's a good place to start. We will never "do enough". Jesus finished our "enough" on the cross. Once and for all.

Jesus tells us, "His yoke is easy, and His burden light..." in Matthew 11:30.

What a relief.

less of me, more of You,


Nov 17, 2014

Shut my mouth.....

November Reading Plan: The book of James
November Memory VerseJames 3:10
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"Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry." James 1:19

I can only imagine how James must have seen the above verse played out over and over throughout his lifetime. Being the brother of Jesus, he would have seen this kind of behavior and must have marveled at the discipline.

Why did Jesus have such a profound effect on the lives around him? Jesus was quick to listen. Jesus was slow to speak. Jesus was slow to become angry.

How many people do you know that have all 3 of these actions mastered? Probably not many.

I know a few that have one or two, but to have all 3 of these characteristics is rare. Very rare.

As women, we want to be heard. We want to spill our hearts out and for others to understand. However, sometimes it is hard to find someone that will actually listen to the entirety, and then be slow to speak after. Often we are interrupted, and given quick advice and then we are expected to get over it and move on.

Isn't that frustrating? I can just imagine talking to Jesus, spilling my heart out to Him as He earnestly listens to every word. Then, when I am finished, He just takes my hand and tells me He understands and that He loves me.

Isn't that what we all really, deep down, want?

Most of my arguments with my sweet and darling better half are over a lack of communication. In other words, I want to talk, and he doesn't want to listen. I get annoyed! I just want him to listen, be quiet, and tell me he loves me. Simple, right?

My darling better half wants to interrupt, tell me how to fix my problem, and get back to ESPN. I love him, but this is the truth.

No wonder the Bible has to instruct us in every day living. We get it wrong, we mess up, and we wonder what went wrong.

Were we quick to listen? Were we slow to speak? Were we slow to become angry?

It's not just my better half that has this problem, I have the same problem. I am often not slow enough to speak, and certainly at times give no pause to anger that arises. Yikes. There goes my mouth again!

I wonder how our relationships would change if we were to really live this verse out with intentionality and purpose. What if we were to do these 3 things in every conversation?

Often we quench what the Holy Spirit has to say when we jump in too quick with advice. Sometimes, we just need to be the listener, and let the Holy Spirit speak to their hearts. He knows what they need to hear the most.

As I type, I think about my children. Sometimes as a mom, I am not a good listener. I am often quick to correct, and quick to get angry over their behavior. Sometimes I just want a quick fix for them and then to move on. However, this is not what this scripture is teaching.

I need to listen to them more. I need to speak less and let them speak more. I need to be slow to anger. Even when I am at my wit's end with them.

Honestly, this post just got away from me for a second. With tears brimming my eyes, this verse is resonating with my mother heart. God's Word always hits with purpose and impact, often taking me by surprise. While I am trying to teach and encourage, He is doing the same with my heart. Constantly teaching me, showing me some tweaks that need to be made, molding my heart. That's what good Father's do. They never stop Fathering us.

Let me let this all sink in. I pray God uses this verse to resonate with your heart as well. Relationships will change when we get this. When we live this.

James saw this first hand through his brother, Jesus, what this looks like lived out.  Oh, and did he see it. He had a front row seat.

shutting my mouth and opening my ears,


Nov 14, 2014

Fun Friday Give-Away....

November Reading Plan: The book of James
November Memory Verse: James 3:10
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It's Friday. Why not a SHINE Girl Give-away?

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One Thousand Gifts Devotional
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If I am honest, I am a little sad to have to give it away. I have perused through it, and you may have to pry it from my fingers. ;)

This devotional will go hand in pretty hand with our bible reading. Ahhh. A match made in Heaven.

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Happy  Fun Friday!

thankful for YOU,


Nov 11, 2014

Peace out....

November Reading Plan: The book of James 
November Memory Verse: James 3:10 
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"Don't be deceived, my dear brothers." James 1:16

Recently, I found myself confused. I was lacking peace over a decision that I needed to make. I searched God's Word for an answer.

I searched and searched and searched for a very clear-cut definitive answer. Black or white. That's how I like to see things. Just give me a yes or a no. Please.

Nothing could be found regarding this particular situation I was facing. So, I prayed. And prayed, and prayed.

"God is not the Author of confusion, but of Peace" 1 Corinthians 14:33, is the scripture that kept coming to my mind as I prayed.

Okay, God, I hear You.

God was reminding me that His way is the way of Peace. Not confusion.

I thought about it and told him which one gave me less "what if's" and questions. I talked to Him about which outcome made my spirit rest.

"There's your answer, child." I heard clearly in my heart.

The other outcome left too many unsettled questions in my head. It was confusing. I could not make sense of how it would look if I chose that path.

Sometimes we can be deceived. We can seek the wrong counsel and go in a direction that God never invited us to go down.

We can even rationalize it in our heads because it seems to make the most sense. Or it seems to offer a better way. This can be dangerous though.

We must go where the Holy Spirit leads us. Follow Him by following peace. The way of Peace leaves little confusion. Even if you are unsure of why He is taking you in this direction, go anyway, with your peace in tact.

I found this treasure of a scripture last week. I shared it with a few friends, and I want to share it with you as well.

The context is regarding Moses as he led the Israelites to the Promise Land. The Israelites had rejected the Lord, over and over. Moses was tired of it, and so was God.

Moses, begged God to go with them or he would not continue to lead them. Here is what Moses said: "If your Presence does not go with us, do not send us up from here." Exodus 3:15

Moses wanted absolutely nothing to do with anything except the Presence of God. He would not walk one step further until he knew that God's Presence would be with him. With all that the Promise Land had to offer, it was nothing compared to God's Presence among them.

We need this kind of dependency on God. Desperately.

Let's begin praying that God will not send us anywhere without His Presence. No matter what kind of delicacy the world throws our way, let's refuse to partake without His Presence being right there with us.

Lest, we are deceived.

going the way of peace,


Nov 6, 2014

Oh Brother.....

November Reading Plan: The book of James
November Memory VerseJames 3:10
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"Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face many trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of faith produces perseverance." James 1:2-3

A little background on the book of James for you history nerds like myself:

Author: James, the brother of Jesus
Date written: AD 40-50
Fun Fact: Many believe it was the very first New Testament book to be written.

Can we just stop at the fact that Jesus' brother wrote this book? How unbelievably amazing is this.

James, the brother of Jesus, knew Jesus from day one. That's pretty cool.

Ponder with me for just a second that James knew Jesus intimately. James didn't just know Jesus as the "Son of God", James knew Jesus as his home-boy...his bro'. James and Jesus probably wrestled, played football in the front yard[or something along those lines], and shared many moments together growing up.

James knew Jesus just about as intimately as he possibly could, yet James called himself "a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ" in verse 1.

Jesus' own brother is calling himself a servant of his very own brother. [Did you catch that?] Whoa!

If this doesn't make you drop your jaw, nothing will!

Of all of the people on the planet, James could have easily denied the legitimacy of Christ. He certainly would have been the first one to stand up and say, "Whoa! Jesus is cool and all, but no way is He the Son of God. I mean, come on. He is just a normal guy like me."

However, what makes this book of the Bible so intriguing and awe-inspiring is that James saw first hand the legitimacy of Jesus. James saw with his very own eyes the sin-lessness of his brother, the miracles, the prophecies, and the resurrection of his brother, Jesus.

James was an eye witness if there ever was one! Who better than to teach us about the ways of Christ than the very brother of Jesus?

Let's keep this in mind when we are reading. Let's remember who is telling us this stuff as we soak in our daily reading. James, the brother of our Lord and Savior!

"Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face many trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of faith produces perseverance." James 1:2-3

And, boy, does James start off with a bang. If anyone knew first hand the hardships of trials, it would have been James. As Jesus' brother, I cannot imagine the persecution he faced. The comparisons. The ridicule. The scrutiny being the brother of Jesus Christ.

However, ironically, James tells us to "consider it pure joy" when faced with trials. Huh?

This almost sounds like an oxymoron.

But, it isn't.

James had lived long enough to see the joy from the trials. Not just his trials, but the trials of those around him. His grieving mother, Mary. The grieving disciples of Jesus. The uprising and uproar of the Jewish people.

James witnessed a whole heck of a lot.

James' faith was tested over and over again. Yet, he considered it pure joy.

He saw with his own brotherly eyes, what pure joy was.

Pure joy to James was perseverance and maturity in his faith. He desperately longed for wisdom and looked for it through the trials. He found wisdom through his perseverance and his faith.

"If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt...." James 1:6

Let's bring this down to real life.

Nobody on Earth wants to hear you tell them to consider it pure joy to be in their current trial. In fact, they may slap you upside the head!


Isn't that what James is telling us?

Here's the thing....

James is telling us there is more to the story. Our human eyes cannot behold the workings of the Holy Spirit acting all around us. Our human eyes cannot see the picture unfolding in Heaven. We only see the hard. The heartache. The sickness. The death. The confusion. The loss. The grief.

"Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." Hebrews 11:1

Read that scripture one more time.

James is telling us, "Oh, friends! Just you wait and see! This may feel like the hardest, cruelest, most painful thing on Earth...but I tell you, Heaven is producing a work that your eyes will one day get to behold!"

James can say this with full confidence, because he saw the end of His Brother's story. He was privy to seeing the "after" of a trial. Not just a trial, but a death.

Catch your breath and read what 1 Corinthians 15:54-55 assures us:

 "Then, when our dying bodies have been transformed into bodies that will never die, this Scripture will be fulfilled:

“Death is swallowed up in victory.
 O death, where is your victory?
 O death, where is your sting?”

Whatever trial you are facing today, rest assured that He is in it with you. Not only is He in it, He is doing something through it that you will one day see. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but one sweet day. 

"For no matter how many promises God has made, they are "Yes" in Christ. And so through him the "Amen" is spoken by us to the glory of God." 2 Corinthians 1:20

"For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts." Isaiah 55:9

Can I get an amen,


Nov 4, 2014

Goodbye Paul....

November Reading Plan: The book of James
November Memory Verse: James 3:10
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November Memory Verse
"Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing.
My brothers,this should not be."
James 3:10

Happy November, friends! I am so excited to start this holiday season! Aren't you?

As we close out the book of Acts, I find myself missing Paul. I think about him often. His life and his preaching affected this heart of mine over 2000 years after he walked this Earth. Paul is one of the ones that I cannot wait to meet in heaven. I have so many questions for him! So many things I need to talk to him about. Hopefully there will be a 24 hour coffee shop open where he and I can chat...for hours.

Only God working through Paul could make THAT kind of impact on our hearts. Paul was doing God's work. God's work expands beyond time. The words of Paul inspired by God continue to make HUGE dividends for the Kingdom of God. Aren't we so thankful?

Today we begin the book of James. This book is only 5 chapters long. However, these 5 chapters pack a mighty punch. My bible is filled with highlighter marks and circles just for this one little itty bitty book.

Here's what I want us to do. Read each day in James. When we finish. Read it again. And again. Until the end of this month.

In fact, I want us to know it so well that we almost have it memorized. Did I just hear you gasp? Or maybe that was me.

My prayer is that God will speak to us daily through this book. My prayer is also that we will be changed after reading this book. I want this book inscribed onto our hearts for eternity. I want us to be able to breathe out the book of James when all is said and done.

Father, teach us what You desire us to know from the book of James. There are treasures upon treasures in this small book of Your Word. Help us to uncover these treasures day by day. Help us to live out the words You have for us in this book. Thank You, Heavenly Father. Amen. 

hello James,


Oct 29, 2014

To Be Honest....

October Reading Plan: The Book of Acts 
October Memory Verse: Isaiah 60:1-2 
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"Boldly and without hindrance he preached the kingdom of God and taught about the Lord Jesus Christ." Acts 28:31

This verse is the very last verse of the book of Acts. I cannot even begin to describe what this book has done to my heart , my love for the Lord and His Word.

Before thoroughly reading and studying this book of the Bible, I didn't have a whole lot of affinity for Paul. Hold on, don't leave me. Let me finish.

I thought Paul was very brash, harsh, and without a lot of compassion to the people he was teaching.

I was so absolutely wrong.

His love for others was evident by the Truth he so desperately wanted to convey. If Paul had not loved others and had compassion for others, he would not have risked his life daily to teach them the Way of Christ.

This is love. This is compassion This is passion for others to know the Truth and to be set free by the Truth of Christ.

Do we have this same love for others?

Do we long to tell others about Jesus and how He died for us?

Do we risk our pride to talk to others and teach others about our faith?

Do we believe what we are telling them enough to not just teach this way of life, but to live it?

There is this new thing that young people do. It's called "TBH". It stands for "to be honest". When someone posts a post on instagram or twitter, they comment by putting "TBH", and then they write something they feel about that person. For example..."TBH: you are very smart."

As women, we often get by with saying things such as, "I am just being real" or "I am just being honest about the situation."

Here's the problem when we say this....

Our "honesty" is based on our feelings. It is based on what we perceive or what we think. Or it could be based on past experiences that skew our perception. It also can be a way that we manipulate others in believing what we think. It's a powerful tool to deceive or lead others to a certain way of believing based on what we desire them to believe.

Are you following me?

The bottom line is this: Who cares.

Who cares what we think anyway?

What does God think? What does God say about this situation?

Paul is a perfect example of sticking to the facts. Sticking to the Truth of Who God is....not just Paul's perception of Who God is.

The problem with "being real" or "being honest", is that it takes the spotlight off of Christ, and spotlights it right onto us.

We don't even realize we are doing it most of the time, because we are so encouraged by the world to "say what we feel", or "TBH". We get applauded for our boldness and honesty. We are looked at as "truth tellers."

True Honesty comes from the Source of Truth itself...God's Word.

"You shall know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free." Romans 8:32

True love and compassion for others comes when we point others to Christ instead of our opinions.

Imagine how our circles of friendships would change if we started to point each other to Christ and to God's Word instead of filling each other up with our "thoughts" and "opinions" in our effort to "TBH".

We must as women, be very cautious with whom we seek counsel. Many people want to tell us what to do, or how to do it. Few people steer us to "What does God's Word say about this?".

"And the words of the Lord are flawless, like silver refined in a furnace of clay, purified seven times." Psalm 12:6

We don't need to live a life of spilling our "feelings" and our "honesty" out all over the place. Let's be like Paul, and spill the Gospel of Christ out everywhere we go. Not just in words, but in action.

"But don't just listen to God's word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves." James 1:32

Paul was gut-honest about the Truth of God. He was bold in his words for God, and not for self-promotion. When we want to "tickle someone's ears", it doesn't stick. It will not resonate in the spirit. However, when we speak the Word of God to others, it resonates. God's Word sticks to the marrow of our bones.

When we point others to Him instead of us, the chains of bondage are loosened and the captives are set free.

"He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners.." Isaiah 61:1

He is Truth.



Oct 24, 2014

I don't feel like it....

October Reading Plan: The Book of Acts
October Memory Verse: Isaiah 60:1-2
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11 That night the Lord stood near Paul and said, “Be encouraged, Paul. Just as you have been a witness to me here in Jerusalem, you must preach the Good News in Rome as well.” Acts 23:11

The Lord spoke these words to Paul as he was imprisoned in Jerusalem. He had just been persecuted by a huge mob of people as he testified to them about Jesus Christ. They had shouted for his immediate death. The uproar was so great that the commander was afraid Paul would be "torn to pieces" by the crowd. 

As Paul sat alone in his barrack the very next night, the words above were spoken to him. Not only were they spoken to him by the Lord,  but they were spoken as "The Lord stood near him."

Paul was human. Flesh and blood just like you and I. He had feelings that must have been raging inside of him as he was persecuted, flogged, and wrongly imprisoned.

His feelings never got the best of him though. His feelings never took him away from his mission. His resolve to fulfill his mission in spreading the news of Jesus Christ counteracted any feelings that would veer him off of his path.

As women, we are very familiar with feelings.  We have them daily. We feel a lot of things within the span of only a few minutes!

The problem with our feelings is that they lead us astray. We depend on them, we surrender to them, we give them way too much power.

How often do we hear from well-meaning friends, "How does that make you feel?" or "How are you feeling today?'

The problem with our feelings is that we were never meant to rely on them. We were created to rely on our Faith. We were created to rely on the Rock of Christ that never waivers. Not the sand of our feelings that are constantly shifting.

The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? Jeremiah 17:9

The world tells us to "follow your heart!"

How wrong this is.

Our hearts lead us astray. Our hearts, when not filtered through the Truth of God's unfailing Word, lead us down paths of destruction and despair. Our hearts are led by our feelings.

If you were to ask me on any given day how I "feel"about my marriage, I would say that I feel a lot of things depending on the hour! Sometimes I feel joyful, hopeful, happy! Yet, I can also feel burdened, heavy, and hopeless some days. 

My feelings change more than this ever-changing Georgia weather.

My feelings are not consistent. They are very circumstantial. However, I have made a vow to God to love Lem, to serve Lem, to honor Lem, and to be his wife all the days of my life. Regardless of how I feel about him some days, I know that I must honor the Lord by respecting and loving my man well. My faith in the Love of the Lord sustains me when I feel like Lem is not listening to me or doesn't understand me. I have to deny my hurt feelings and depend on the Promises of God to get through hard times in my marriage.  My feelings deceive my heart because they are based on circumstances, not Truth. 

Faith is not circumstantial. Faith is solid as the Rock it is founded upon. Faith never waivers despite the storm swirling around it. Despite what our misguided hearts tell us, "faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." Hebrews 11:1

As women, we must work on managing our feelings. We must no let them control our days. Yes, we will have emotions, yes we will feel things. However, we must not act on feelings that are contrary to God's Word.

Let's get to the nitty gritty of it all...

Feelings tell us that we should turn our backs on those that hurt us. Faith tells us to "bless those who curse you, and pray for those that mistreat you." Luke 6:28 

Feelings tell us we are tired and don't feel like waking up a little earlier for some time alone with the Lord. Faith tells us, "seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness." Matthew 6:33. 

Feelings tell us to do what we want to do. Be led by the desires of our hearts, and just go with the flow. Faith tells us to "Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life." Psalm 139:23-24

Feelings tell us to speak our minds. Say what we feel. Don't hold back. Faith tells us, "Set a guard over my mouth, O Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips." Psalm 141:3

Feelings tell us we don't measure up. We are not enough and never will be. Faith tells us, "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." Psalm 139:14

Friends, come close and listen up for a minute. I want us to get this. 

When we are led by our feelings and our emotions, we are NOT being led by the Holy Spirit. Our feelings can be contrary to the Lord and His ways for us. A Spirit filled life is one with discipline and obedience over the flesh of our feelings. 

Denying our feelings is uncomfortable. Who ever said following the Holy Spirit's path for us would be comfy?? There is not a disciple in the Bible that was not uncomfortable. They gave up their comfort to live for Christ. If we insist on molding our lives around our comfort level, we are denying the Lord and His purposes for our lives. We fail to recognize that Jesus Christ is our only Master, not our feelings of comfort. 

The world tells us to go with how we feel. Listen to our hearts. Do what we desire. 

Jesus says, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow Me" Matthew 16:24

"knowing this, that our old self was crucified with Him, in order that our body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be slaves to sin..." Romans 6:6

"Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires."Galatians 5:24

"Therefore consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry." Colossians 3:5

My feelings have gotten me into more messes than I care to recount. In order for my life to be directed by the Lord, I must follow His way. Do what He says. not what I feel. 

Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. Matthew 7:24

 Let's not just "hear His Words", let's put them into practice. Beginning with denying the shifting sands of our feelings. 

How can we practice this today? Each time our feelings want to take over, let's say this to the Lord, "Your Will be done, Lord. Not mine."

We may have to say it all day. Get in the Word and find Truths that counteract your feelings. They are in there. For every shifting feeling that lies to us, there is God's Truth beckoning us to the Rock. You can bet your last pretty little lipgloss on that one.  

out of the sand and onto the rock,


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