Oct 3, 2012

Wednesday SHINE....

Today's Reading: Matthew 3

Happy Worship Wednesday, SHINE girls!

Wanna know why I love having a theme for each day of the week? It motivates me and gives me a purpose.

For so long, I lived day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute, without purpose. My days were filled with "stuff", but no real purpose.

Can you relate?

Now, I want purpose in my days. I want to live intentional for Jesus! I want to be pushed to be the best daughter of the Father that I can be!

A couple of nights ago, I was very saddened by some news. It was devastating, and my heart was broken into pieces over this news. It involved the death of someone that we knew.

I cried, and cried, and cried. I talked out loud to God and asked Him: "Why, Lord, Why?? I don't understand. Please help me to understand."

The Lord kept prompting me to pray. Read His Word, and pray.

So, I did.

I started to feel better and have a sense of calm.

Soon after, I lay my head on my big fluffy white pillow.  However, the Lord was prompting me to do something else.

An image of a devotion that I almost gave away that day, popped into my head. I was packing up books earlier that day and I almost put it in the bag to give away. Something stopped me. (we all know WHO that was!)

I opened up my bedside drawer and saw the devotional.

Slowly, I turned to the date for that day.

Here's the first sentence: "In your spiritual life, you are either aggressively moving forward or slipping backward. Either you grow, or you start to die. There is no such thing as dormant Christianity. It is vital and essential to keep pressing on."

Oh, girls. It was like the Holy Spirit had just poured fresh spring water over my head after a day in the desert.

This loss that we had just learned about, this economy that is falling apart, the hatred we see spewing all over the place from loved ones very close to us,  this world that grows dimmer by the minute....it is all just too much. Too much.

However, God was whispering to me to press on. The Lord knows me well enough to know that I have a tendency to get stuck. I have a hard time moving on when my emotions, my feelings, get the best of me. Only by pressing on with Him, am I able to get back up off my bottom, wipe away the tears, and keep moving.

Girls, we must be sure we are growing. We must be sure we are moving aggressively towards Him. This world wants to suck you up in that great big vacuum and never let you out.

We must be intentional. We must grow.

So, sounds good right? But, how do we do this?

  • Pray
  • Read His Word
  • Pray for a mentor (a wise one!)
  • Find a church family and get plugged in
  • Walk in Love--every.single.day
  • Get rid of distractions that keep you "busy", but not growing. (pray about this one, girls. it's a biggie!)
  • Find gaps in your conduct, your behavior towards others, your mannerisms that need tuning up.
  • Pray for godly friends. Let me repeat this one: Pray for godly friends. The wrong friends can stifle our growth, girls. You know it's true.
  • Pray for someone who has recently hurt you. Pray until you want to vomit. I'm serious. Nothing grows us closer to Him than praying for the unlovables in our lives. Nothing.
  • Speak less, listen more. Let me repeat: Speak less, listen more. No explanation needed.
  • Assume the best, not the worst of others. Not just sometimes, but every single time.
  • Have a running list in your head of what you are thankful for. This keeps the enemy out of your head and negative thoughts at bay. 
  • Quit thinking of yourself and instead think of how you can encourage someone else today. Someone in your life needs it badly. 
  • When someone hurts you, slanders you, or curses you: bless them. (not sarcastically either.) Don't breathe a word of their hurt towards you to anyone else. If you must speak to someone, make it a safe person. A wise person. The best person to take it to is the Father. He is always listening.
  • Be careful when giving advice to others. Girls, the Bible clearly teaches us that we will be held accountable for every word spoken. (Matthew 12:36)  Whoa. This very reason is why we must know His Word. Our advice must be biblically sound. So, if you are not sure what to say, don't speak. 

Let's never be dormant, girls. Let's fan the flames of the Holy Spirit living inside of us daily! Dormancy should not even be in our vocabulary. We were made to grow!

"This is why I remind you to fan into flames the spiritual gift God gave you when I laid my hands on you."
2 Timothy 1:6

Girls, if we don't have purpose in our days, if we are not growing closer to Him...then what's the point?

fanning the flames,



  1. Anonymous10/03/2012

    I needed this today because I feel like I have been floating lately with no purpose. It's easy for me to get off track and lose focus. I needed those bullet points! Whewwww! Especially praying for someone that has hurt me! I will be intentional today in all I do.

  2. Anonymous10/03/2012

    "Speak less, listen more". This hit me hard!! Saving this to read DAILY! KRISTEN

  3. Anonymous10/03/2012

    Just the other day a friend was needing advice. The Lord stopped me in my tracks before I opened my mouth. I prayed for her right there! I told her that the Lord had the answers she needed and we would seek HIM together. I wish I would have always done this, because my words have been careless in the past. Living on purpose!

  4. Isn't good that the Lord refreshes us every day? There is so much in His Word to glean from. Answers and solutions to every single situation and when we follow in faith, trust and obedience, He is quick to draw near and perform what He promises. 'Why, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath'. James 1:19 tells us. When I open myself up to this, I hear that still/small gentle voice speaking to me giving direction of (yes) when to offer prayer or testimony or comfort etc. Praise Him!

  5. Anonymous10/03/2012

    Jill, you are just wonderful. Thank you for pushing me forward. Your point and checklist is just what I needed today. Thank you for loving us enough to speak His truth, and to encourage us to make the right choice every time. You have motivated me and pointed me in the right direction, again! Thank you! I will be forever grateful for you. Love you so much! Sarah

  6. Anonymous10/03/2012

    O Jill, this is such a good word for us. Often when someone is venting to me and asking for advice I search myself for an answer. Then I ususally say that my advice is not what matters. My own answer would be helpful, I hope, but I don't know what to do, so let's just pray about it together right now. If someone has hurt you, I suggest putting them at the top of your prayer list. If I am struggling with a situation or depressed at all by their attitude, I put that person on my "Sauls List". Thank you for the "Sauls List", Jill. It still works. Loving SHINE ministry, Gloria

  7. Amen to all of the above!!! Love this ministry, Jill!!! Fanning the flame....Aunt Teddi

  8. I loved this Jill! Thank you!

  9. Anonymous10/03/2012

    Thanks for the words today, Jill. Printing this one and posting it where I can read and reread! N Wilson

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  11. Anonymous10/03/2012

    Jill you are on fire for the Lord, thank you for reminding me how easy it is to slip backwards. Times are always going to be filled with enemies, especially the ones we love, so glad God is on my side. Praying and praying for you daughter, love you bushels and pecks..


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