Jul 16, 2013

Tuesday SHINE....

Today's Reading: 1 Samuel 25-26

Good morning, sweet SHINE sisters!

Today, Christa Rooks, is posting on the friendship between Johnathan and David. Her post ties in perfectly with our reading and our memory verse for this week.

Be blessed by her post, friends.

Through Thick and Thin
by: Christa Rooks

Don’t be afraid,” Jonathan reassured him. “My father will never find you! You are going to be the king of Israel, and I will be next to you, as my father, Saul, is well aware.” So the two of them renewed their solemn pact before the Lord. Then Jonathan returned home, while David stayed at Horesh. (1 Samuel 23:17, 18 NLT)

So solid and strong. It strikes me as I ponder friendship. Men have such a bond, especially the ones from the Lord. James has friends that have been with him since elementary school whom he is still close with now.  These are lifelong friendships that God brought together. 

Why as women do we have a difficult time keeping friends or being good friends to the ones we have? Perhaps it's the very thing we discussed in growth group ... judging from the appearance rather than the heart ... being petty and not acting in true love towards one another. Maybe hormones play a role. Maybe emotions take over. Maybe it's a combination of factors. Nevertheless, when you consider all that I just mentioned, one common denominator comes into play ... flesh. It seems that we as women like to use our hormones and emotions as an excuse to act however we please.  I believe God is calling us to love at all times and not allow the enemy’s temptation to use excuses to overcome us. 

for if you are living according to the flesh, you must die; but if by the Spirit you are putting to death the deeds of the body, you will live.  For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are the sons [and daughters] of God.  – Romans 8:13-14

As believers in and of Christ, are we to die to sin and flesh daily? Yes. Are we to be holy as God is holy (1 Peter 1:16)? Yes. And most importantly, are we to love others as Christ loves us (John 13:34)? Yes!

I want to be loyal and faithful to all the women God has put in my life. I want to love each of them with a sisterly love and lift them up in prayer. And I want to treat the God-bonds (those who I know the Spirit has forged together) like David and Jonathan did: a solemn pact before the Lord even to death.  He is calling us to LOVE.  Love covers a multitude of sins.  Love forgives. 

Let me leave you with what the bible says about love:

Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.  Love never fails …
 - 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

God, help me to love this way.  Help me to embrace the women you’ve put in my life.  And help me to treat all my friendships the way Jonathan and David did

3 comments:

  1. Yes! Yes! Yes!
    I love this!
    Thank you for sharing! May this be the prayer of my heart daily!

    Love, Erin

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  2. Christa please help hold me accountable. As I thought about our "excuses" a couple came to my mind. I struggle with not feeling worthy enough for some friends. Depending on how some grew up with confidence or struggling to be accepted carries on into our adult life. Also, some many ladies might judge from the outside but knowing someones heart truly means that person probably has already judged themselves. As Christian ladies we need to teach other ladies how God so loves us and then learn to love ourselves. Once we learn to love ourselves loving others in His way will be such a beautiful thing. All God wants is for us to Love.

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  3. great post. thank you.

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